Enthusiasm is everyone’s favorite sexual technique and this is especially true when it comes to oral sex! At Bliss, we do offer HOME Blow Job classes and we also do a b.j. group class about once a quarter here in the Bay Area. (More about our blow job home parties here.)

Here are some of the tips we share in our blow job ebook. This 16 page ebook teaches you how to give a gourmet blow job, how to give an efficient blow job and the how and why women LOVE cock rings! (And a little penis ring 101 so you know how to use it when you buy one.)

If you would like to buy our “Blow Job e-book” the link is here and the blow job book is only $4.99 and I do have a money back guarantee. If you’re not happy with it, I will be happy to refund your money, too.   Blow Job e-book purchase here:  http://www.blisspartiesinc.com/eBook___Gourmet.html

How to give a gourmet blow job:

1.  Like with all really great sex, enthusiasm is the HOTTEST technique you can bring to your blow job for your lover. Everyone can tell when you are NOT enjoying yourself orally.

2.  Set the mood and the room. Make sure you can be comfortable for a good 20 minutes. We are talking about total worship of his penis and balls. Get cozy and plan on prolonging the b.j.

3.  Make out with his penis. For women, making out and dry humping gets us super turned on. For men, you making out and orally worshipping his cock gets him super turned on.

4.  Your tongue is the strongest muscle in your body. Use it. And use it well. Use it all over and use it with varying types of pressure. When you are using your mouth on his penis, be sure to remember to get your tongue moving around alot, too.

5.  Be sure your mouth is VERY wet. Sometimes brushing your teeth and tongue - especially if you can really get your toothbrush to the back of your throat – that can help your mouth start to salivate. And if you get the penis or the toothbrush way to the back of your throat – it does help to bring up that VERY thick saliva which can make the b.j. very sloppy and fun.

Want to learn more blow job tips? Tune in to http://www.blogtalkradio.com/talkinginthedark as we talk all things ORAL SEX at 6 p.m. Pacific on January 1oth.

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Blissfully, Chrystal Bougon

Good fortune? Being very prolific or speedy? YES! All of the above. But how about a Jack Rabbit that is also waterproof and made with silicone? How about a Jack Rabbit that is cordless and whisper quiet? (People always ask me why so many sex toys have a rabbit on them. I tell them my guess is that they chose the rabbit because they are so prolific… and that’s a polite way of saying horny.)

Well it was my good fortune to get a sample of the new Silicone Jack Rabbit from Cal Exotics as part of their Sex Toy Expert blogging program. So, yaaaaa for rabbits and good fortune!

At our home Bliss pleasure parties, I do get asked often about toys that women (and especially Moms) can use in the shower or the hot tub. Sometimes the bathroom is the only place we can get any real privacy and ME time, right? And, many women have been in love / lust with their rabbits over the years and have been excitedly awaiting a waterproof rabbit that is well made, provides enough vibration and is quiet enough that it will not sound like there is a leaf blower in their bathroom.

I love the skin on this rabbit. It’s silicone so it feels very velvety and very luxurious. I do not really get the reverse rotation button on this toy, but the other features are fab. (I have noticed that several rabbit style toys have this “clockwise/counter clockwise” switch that lets you switch up the way the pearls rotate. I never really understood the joy in that, but apparantly some women like it.

 If you are a follower of my blog or my Facebook posts, you may know that I love the 5 Speed Bullet like nobody’s business. I love it because I love the 5 speeds of pulsation and escalation. This Silicone Jack Rabbit also has pulsations and escalations. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! 7 speeds to be exact.  And, because it takes 3 AAA batteries, MORE POWER! (Well, enough power. Not quite as much power as the 9v battery in the 5 Speed Bullet - but enough power to get’er done.)

This rabbit is about 5″ of insertable shaft and about 1.75″ of girth. From tip to the bottom of the battery pack, I would say the toy is about 10″ long. It’s also much lighter then the Waterproof Jack Rabbit from Cal Exotics which can get very heavy in your hand if you use it for an extended amount of time. I know it may sound strange, but it is something you need to give some thought to when you are buying a sex toy. Your arm can get fatigued when the toy is super heavy. This silicone jack rabbit is nice and light and super quiet – even with three batteries powering the motor.

I think this toy may stay in my shower caddy!

And, btw, if you like our blog you can subcsribe to it for .99 cents a month and read it on your Kindle. Here is the link to see our Blog “Everyone Wants to Have Better Sex” on Amazon. Just .99 cents a month. Kind of fun and you can cancel it any time if you’re not satisfied with it.

Let’s connect on Social Media – www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection and I tweet as @blissconnection

Blissfully, Chrystal Bougon

Who does that? Who buys sex toys as Christmas gifts or Hanukkah gifts? You might be surprised… many thousands of people do! Have you been naughty or nice this year? Wouldn’t you just be super duper excited if someone bought you a sex toy for Christmas? I know I would.

Everyone loves a great lover, right? And everyone loves a great deal. So, this blog is all about some fun ideas for Stocking Stuffers for your Secret (or not so secret) Santa or Mrs. Claus… or maybe for Santa’s little helpers.

In case you do not want to read my entire blog and you are itching to go and buy a sex toy for your lover – our Cyber Monday coupon code is Monday2 – just put that in at the end of the order process and it will give you 20% off and free shipping on purchases over $45.

For starters, the Fuzzy Love Cuffs make a naughty gift for thatpecial someone you want to get naughty with. Nothing says I LOVE YOU like some light S&M gear.

Maybe you want to buy a NICE gift for your naughty little elf. You can buy your sweetie a rabbit or bullet to show how much you really care about thier sexual pleasure. My all time favorite bullet ever is the 5 Speed Bullet. And, my second favorite toy ever is the Original Pearl Rabbit from Vibratex. (This is the rabbit that was made famous by that now infamous episode of “Sex & The City” on HBO. I guarantee this will make for THE BEST post Christmas sex you have ever had. She will want to show her appreciation for your generosity.

At our home pleasure parties, I often hear women buying some of the more polite products for the standard bullet for the close girlfriends. You B.F.F. will go a back flip when she opens her especially sexy silver bullet or the edible massage oil you bought her.

The chocolate body frosting from Kama Sutra and the Dirty Dice make great stocking stuffers. So do the blow job vouchers and the doggy style strap.

What about pairing the edible massage oil with a hand made erotic massage coupon? I can imagine everyone I know would LOVE to receive that gift.

Check out our online store www.BlissConnection.com and see if soemthing sexy inspires you. Spend $45 an we pay the ground shipping. Want to connect with us on Facebook?  You can find us on Facebook at www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection and on Twitter @BlissConnection

Happy Holidays and HO HO HO!

Blissfully, Chrystal

Sex Toy Expert / Chief Toy Officer for BlissConnection.com

Are you holding back in the bedroom? What is it going to take for you to finally just surrender and let go?

Are you waiting to lose that last 10 lbs or baby fat? Are you waiting until you finally start going to yoga three times a week or running 10 miles a week? Are you waiting for those stretch marks to go away or are you waiting until you go and get that long over due pedicure?

Stop waiting! It’s time. SURRENDER! Let go. Leave it all somewhere safe – I promise the negative self talk and all of the doubt will wait. Lock it up and put it somewhere and let your hair down, girl! Having a great sex life means you have to stop doubting yourself and stop picking yourself apart. I promise if he has an erection, he is likely not noticing your saggy breasts or your cellulite!

One of the keys to having a great sex life is letting go of all of that negative self talk. And, stop comparing yourself to other women or other couples. You are you! Only you can do what you do the way you do it. You are your own special sauce. If he was not into something about you he probably would not be in a bed with you. Right?

Ok, so now go find those panties, lingerie or costume and go put it on. ROCK HIS WORLD. People remember how you make them feel not how you looked while doing it. SERIOUSLY. You know all of this already. Why aren’t you practicing it? Why are you holding back and being a “good girl” in the bedroom? Stop letting the media and all of that crap you brought up learning about what a lady does or does not do. I am not suggesting you let your class go out the window. You can be classy and dirty at the same time. FOR REAL!

Sex is such a fabulous way to stay connected to your partner. I know for me, when I feel like I could possibly commit a homicidal act against my partner and I want to wring his neck – I just take a deep breath and remember “this too shall pass.”  And, I find that when we make up and get back together in bed it reminds me how much I actually really do like him.

As one of my good friends says “stop buying what the media is selling” and remember that for every man that loves a size 2 there is an equal amount of men who love a size 22. For every man who loves DDD breasts there are an equal amount of men who love an A cup. (Yes, some men DO NOT like super big boobs. Seriously. They are turned off by them. No joke!)

I know I say it a lot, but you are PERFECT exactly the way you are. Especially when you believe that and LOVE yourself for exactly how you look RIGHT NOW. And, when you have that kind of confidence in the bedroom and you just stay in the moment and surrender to the act – you both will go places you have never been before.

If you are already fabulous at all of this kind of stuff and you know how to help us all to let go of the crap that the media and society brainwashes us into believing – please share your tips and tactics here. We’re all a work in progress and I know I can sometimes doubt myself, too. (Especially the 2 days leading up to my cycle.)  So, we all need a reminder.

My goal is that every time you worry about dimming the lights or  you get too nervous to wear that new vinyl skirt or that skimpy thong for him – you hear my voice in your head saying to you “GO FOR IT. YOU ARE PERFECT! GET GREEDY! Go rock his world!”

Blissfully,

Chrystal Bougon

www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection

My passion is your passion. I am the Chief Toy Officer for www.BlissConnection.com and I love to help women and couples to have mind blowing sex!

It’s so nice that the sex toy industry is now so focused on making artful and beautiful sex toys. So many companies are making these toys that look like pieces of art. When I first got the Colette Curved Massager from Cal Exotics I was very impressed with how beautiful it was. Yaaaaa. (Another beautiful toy from Cal Exotics it the L’Amour. I reviewed it here, too, on our Bliss blog.)

And, I was also impressed with the weight of this toy. When you have it in your hand, it has a little heft and weight to it. It’s also fairly girthy and I would describe it like a very girthy banana. The dildo is about 6.5″ long but only about 6″ insertable. But, honestly, I find that while women seem to enjoy large penises – they seem to prefer toys that are not so big. And, I should mention this toy was sent to me by Cal Exotics as I am one of their sex toy reviewers for their Sex Toy Sex Expert toy review program. Have I mentioned I love my job?

I have personally facilitated over 1,300 Bliss Pleasure Parties in the last 8 1/2 years and I find that women are really only looking for about 4″ of insertion from a toy. But, that is good news is that with this toy you can insert as much or as little as you like. When the toy is longer then 4″ the rest of the toy is a handle which is nice when you are using the toy alone.

What I really loved about this toy, the Colette Curved Massager, is the POWER and the variations on the speeds and pulsations. If you know me at all or if you follow my blog, you know I like toys that tease the clitoris and that provide a variety of speeds and pulsations. My all time favorite toy ever is the 5 Speed Bullet and I talk about it all of the time in person, on Facebook and on this blog, too! The Colette has similar speed and pulsations and that makes my heart sing!

I also love that this toy is made with a very yummy silicon and it is completely body safe. No phthalates in this toy so it’s perfectly safe for vaginal insertion. And, if you want this toy to last a VERY long time then take the batteries out in between use. Taking the batteries out of your sex toys does help them to last much much longer. (Plus, have you ever had your batteries like and go bad and ruin a sex toy? It just plain pisses me off when $8.00 worth of batteries ruin a $100 sex toy.)

We do sell the Colette Curved Massager on our Online Sex Toy Store www.BlissConnection.com along with various other toys in this line of Couture Collection from Cal Exotics.

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We also do Bliss Pleasure Parties all over the San Jose and San Francisco Bay Area. Give us a call and you can meet the Colette up close and in person at your sex toy party. Tel: 408-712-3809

The L’Amour Seduction toy is artfully and beautifully designed. It’s so pleasing to the eye which cannot be said of all sex toys as I am sure you know. But, when this vibrator arrived as part of the Cal Exotics Sex Expert program, I was very pleased by the way it looked.

When I opened the packaging, I was also thrilled to see that Cal Exotics used their very yummy silicone on this “twice as nice” dual stimulator style toy. The texture of the toy is almost velvety and super soft and luxurious. We found that you may not even need to use lubrication with this toy when inserting it… it’s that smooth.

The shaft of this “rabbit” style toy is about 8″ long, but truly only about 4 to 5″ insertable. Since this toy has a clitoral stimulator, it does sort of stop the toy from inserting all the way in – which is just perfect. I find that most women want about 3 to 4″ insertable and a strong vibrator on the clitoris. You get that twice as nice feeling with the shaft giving you the penetratation or “fullness” feeling and then the clitoral vibrator which is most likely going to be the part of this toy that gives you your climax.

This toy the Seduction takes 2 AAA batteries and is waterproof and splashproof. And, thanks to the lovely silicone material, the vibration does travel all the way to through the shaft. The vibration in the shaft likely would not give anyone an orgasm, but the clitoral stimulator certainly will. Much more power to the clit then to the shaft.

If you are new to the rabbit style or “twice as nice” dual stimulators, I think this would be a great toy to start off with to see if you might like that style. It’s not super expensive and probably most budgets could afford the L’Amour Seduction vibe. At BlissConnection.com   we sell the vibe for $75. (And we always offer free shipping on purchases over $45.)

Overall, this is a nice toy. I would give it 4 out of 5 stars and a great value for the money. It’s super easy to clean and care for. And, just like with all toys, do take the batteries out in between use if you want them to last longer.

Would love to hear your opinion of this vibrator.

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The first product ever scientifically proven to mask the taste of semen. www.YourMasque.com is designed for oral sex on him. And I am interviewing the founder of the company tomorrow on Better Sex Radio. To tune in you can listen live at 11 a.m. Pacific at www.blogtalkradio.com/blissradio .

Years of research have led to this breakthrough for your bedroom. Masque is a paper-thin, gel strip that dissolves on your tongue and completely disguises the taste of semen during oral sex for up to fifteen amazing minutes. We’ll work our magic, while you work yours.

How does it work?

Masque is partially comprised of flavor masking ingredients that work to block taste profiles associated with oral sex on men, and semen (salts, bitters, and proteins). These masking ingredients are all microencapsulated into an orally dissolvable, flavored strip.

Is Masque like other novelty products? (e.g. flavored lubricants and flavored condoms)

No, Masque is not another flavored novelty product. Masque has been designed by a team of scientists and researchers who have engineered a formula combining individual taste receptor blockers which are microencapsulated in a paper thin, dissolvable, oral gel strip.

Couldn’t I just use a mint or Altoid for a similar effect?

Masque doesn’t overwhelm the flavor or cover it in the way that a mint does. For up to fifteen minutes after the strip dissolves on your tongue, the salts, bitter and protein are completely masked to your taste receptors.

Is Masque just like a Listerine® strip?

Masque is a similar product to Listerine® strips in that they are both dissolvable oral strips. The similarities end there. Masque actively conceals all flavors associated with going down on your man.

What flavors does Masque come in?

Masque is currently available in Strawberry, Watermelon and Chocolate. Each has a slight menthol hint.

When will you release other flavors?

We are currently in various phases of development of other flavors. If you have a suggestion for a flavor you’d like to see, drop us a line.

How long will it last?

Masque is fast-acting with immediate results after the strip dissolves. Initially the masking technology was designed to last approximately 10 minutes, but since then, individual usage tests have shown strips typically last up to 15 minutes and in some cases longer.

Great idea, right?

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A wireless sex toy / vibrator that couples can wear! I love this concept. Several companies have attempted it, but I have not been able to find one that works for me. (For various reasons, they have not worked. I don’t want to go into detail here or bad mouth other sex toy companies.) I am going to keep this all about WHY I loved the MyFixSation.com toy that Tiffany York sent me to sample.

So, right away I knew I loved MyFixsation.com because they actually thought about ALL BODY TYPES for their panties! You see, their little vibrator fits into a special pair of panties that let the panty hold the vibrator on your clitoris and labia so it stays right where you need the vibration! Tiffany believes like I do that ONE SIZE DOES NOT FIT ALL! So, she has the special panties available all the way up to a 2x. Hallelujah Tiffany. With the average American woman at a size 12, we are going to need some panties that fit all of us. Big girls LOVE great sex, too!

I’m really looking forward to interviewing Tiffany of MyFixSation.com on Better Sex Radio this Wednesda, Oct. 5th at 11 a.m. You can tune in live at  www.BlogtalkRadio.com/BlissRadio

I love this. This is from the MyFixSation.com website about relationships and intimacy:

Intimacy is the key to successful relationships!

We believe that when two people in a relationship stop making love, or rarely make love, they begin to lose their connection to each other. As a consequence, the intimacy in their relationship suffers, resulting in a myriad of escalating problems. FixSation wants you not only to have sex with your partner, we want you to have the BEST SEX you’ve ever had in your life and in your relationship. We believe that when this happens, your desire to have more sex will increase, forming an improved connection with your partner, and enhancing the intimacy in your relationship.

Check our their Facebook page for their products:  https://www.facebook.com/MyFixSation

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So excited to interview Desiree Duffie of www.Jopen.com today about the Jopen products.  I was lucky enough to get to sample the Jopen Vanity rechargeable vibrator and loved it!

If you would like to tune in live to our show today, you can listen live at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/BlissRadio   at 11:30 pacific.

Or, you can listen to our podcasts on iTunes.   www.BlissoniTunes.com

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A blow job should not feel like a job!

Believe me. I get it. Some days it feels like a job and some days it feels like fun. Hopefully more often fun then a job. But, the reality is that there are days when it feels like a chore. I have some tips to share with you here for those days. I like to call these my “efficient blow job” tips.

1. Use a vibrator or vibrating cock ring on his penis or balls while going down on him (On the shaft, on the torso, the testicles, all over)

2. Pay special (and very wet) attention to his testicles with your tongue while stroking the shaft of his penis at the same time.

3. Use a wet finger on the A.B.C. (ass-ball-connector) while you have your mouth on the head and your other hand on the shaft. (A good water based lube can really help with this, too.)

We have a few more and some of them are a little bit advanced (read: kinky) for our blog. But, if you would like to learn 3 or 4 more tips for giving an efficient b.j. you can buy our eBook. Our eBook is 14 pages full of tips for how to use penis rings properly. And, it includes lots of tips for giving the gourmet b.j. and additional tips for giving an efficient b.j.

Our Bliss eBook is only $4.99 and you can purchase our ebook here.

Bring More Bliss to your Bedroom eBook from BlissConnection.com

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We also do home parties where we teach blow job techniques in your home. Check out our blow job home seminar on our Bliss Pleasure Party website.