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Aloe Cadabra

Join me this Wednesday March 10th to learn more about this fantastic new organic lubricant that is FEMALE FRIENDLY! Aloe Cadabra is dedicated to the healthy exploration of sexuality, sex, our bodies, our relationship to those things and how those they can increase our health, well-being, happiness and prosperity.

I am excited to have Carolyn Braddock on the show to learn all about Aloe Cadabra. Tune in around 11:30 a.m. when Carolyn joins the show.  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/BlissRadio

Want to continue the dialogue? Join our Fan Page at http://www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection

“We are Aloe Cadabra, an all natural personal lubricant for intimate pleasures made with more than 97% organic aloe vera.”   Have to love a company making body safe romance products!

Tori, our lucky fan

Facebook Fan Page Contest: We hit 800 Fans and we offered our fans a FREE Rabbit Pearl or a FREE Stripper Pole and our lucky fan chose the Free Stripper Pole! Tori is our big winner and she was chosen randomly from our first 800 fans. (Join our Fan Page as we will be giving away something special when we hit 1,000 Fans! http://www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection )

I had the pleasure of emailing Tori this moring to tell her she is our lucky winner. She emailed me back right away to say she would LOVE the Stripper Pole. Here is her exact quote:  “Hi Chrystal!!   I am so excited!!!  This was such an awesome email to wake up to this morning!!  WELL I already have the Rabbit Vibrator so I’m going to have to go with the stripper pole!  It’s going to give me more incentive to get my butt in shape so I can take those pole lessons! So you said you’d like to know some stuff about me..   I’d be happy to share!    (AND I’d love to book a party with you soon as well!) Looking forward to hearing from you!”

I am just tickled she is so excited! And, Tori, I do have a business partner that will come to your home once you install the pole and she will teach you and some of your girlfriends how to really give that stripper / fitness pole a work out! Her business is called http://www.JewelSexpression.com when you are ready to book her.

Stripper Pole

And Tori, please let us know when you are ready to book your Bliss Pleasure Party!   We set up a full store in your home when do a Bliss Pleasure Party and you and your friends get to take home your purchases home THAT NIGHT. No waiting at our Bliss Pleasure Parties!

Enjoy the pole! Take some pics for us once you install it. G  rated please.

Blissfully, Chrystal   http://www.BlissConnection.com

Dr. Britton

This week on “Better Sex Radio” we will be joined by famed Sex Coach, nationally board certified Clinical Sexologist, Sexuality Educator and Personal Coach Dr. Patti Britton.

“Dr. Patti believes that women and men have a divine birthright to experience their sexual power, eroticism and ultimate pleasure.”  HALLELUJAH!  Tune in March 10th at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/BlissRadio

This is directly from Dr. Britton’s webpage  http://www.AskTheSexCoach.com

As a sexologist, I have discovered that there are five basic areas that need to be discovered, addressed, unblocked and then aligned.

1) Mind—-information, your self-talk, thinking about sexual performance, capacity for fantasy, troubling thought patterns, such as compulsivity
2) Emotions—the feelings you carry from the past, about your body and body image, what you suppress and express, how you express your emotions, and your capacity for intimacy
3) Body-image issues, knowing how your own sexual pattern works, understanding your own body’s sexual architecture and function, acknowledging your own sexual (dys)functions, learning skills for how to be a successful lover alone or with a partner
4) Energy—sex is all about energy; the build-up, the containment and the expression of energy; in my one-on-one work I am able to observe your energy patterns within yourself and with a partner (even about how your non-physical relationship dynamics) and give coaching feedback for handling this often overlooked part of your sexuality
5) Spirit—that essence of self; those esoteric moments or practices that transcend the moment, such as peak orgasm experiences; sacred sexuality; the more subtle and delicate manner in which you deny or reflect your inner self through your sexuality; the path of sex to experience the Divine or God

It’s my observation and experience that for most people all FIVE elements must be in alignment for sex to be the most fulfilling in your life. I work to help you do just that.

I am so excited to have Dr. Britton on and to learn all about her Sex Coaching practice and glean any tips we can from this amazing Sex Expert about how to keep the SPARK burning even in long term relationships. Be sure to tune in this Wednesday, March 10th at 11 a.m. Pacific!  http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/BlissRadio

You can also continue the party with us and join in the dialogue:  http://www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection

Wish Upon a Wedding

I am so blessed and honored to be a part of this fantastic organization. Wish Upon a Wedding is the ORIGINAL Wedding Granting Organization - Wish Upon a Wedding produces weddings & civil union ceremonies at destinations across the United States for individuals facing life-threatening illness.

I am grateful to be the Medical Outreach and on the Board for Wish Upon a Wedding.  When the founder, Liz Guthrie, contacted me about becoming a Board Member I had no real appreciation of her true vision of this project. WOW is all I have to say.  Liz is a true visionary and it’s been such an amazing process to watch. Liz (and the other Board Members) have huge and lofty goals for this 501c3. We are expanding daily it seems, sometimes. New chapters all over the U.S. and I am so excited to say our first wedding is happening this Saturday for a brave and beautiful woman named Florence!

Stay tuned as we are all working hard to tell the world about America’s ORIGINAL Wedding Granting Organization as you will be seeing us more in the news, the blogosphere, Facebook, and everywhere!  We would love to have you on board as a FAN, as a wedding grantor, a volunteer or spread the word so we can help some other lovely couples who just need a little help to make their dreams come true.

How you can help: 

Join the Fan Page for Wish Upon a Wedding     

Follow us on Twitter : Wish Upon a Wedding on Twitter  @WishUponWedding

Become a Wish Grantor:  Click on the Wish Grantor Link Here

Like all foundations, we would love a cash donation, too, and you can donate to Wish Upon a Wedding Here

And, if none of those things work for you, just volunteer some of your time to Wish Upon a Wedding.

And, stay tuned next week for the pictures and details of our first wedding. We had the honor of meeting Florence at our Launch Party and I was so touched by her strength, grace and beauty. As hard as some of the stuff we are dealing with to help the people who apply for their dream wedding is, the reward is so much greater. Great job Liz, Sasha and the whole Wish Upon a Wedding team.

Pleasure Coach

What a treat for me! I finally get to talk with one of my Facebook friends live and on the air.  Check out Hercules’ website http://www.ThePleasureCoach.org  or join his Facebook Fan Page at http://www.Facebook.com/thepleasurecoach ! Hercules is such a delight on Facebook, I am so excited to get to know him better.

We are going to talk about everything from Erotic Massage for Women, America’s Sexuality Day (which is today), Viagra and so much more. I hope you will join us at 11 a.m. to tune in to hear my interview with Allana Pratt and then at 11:30 to tune it to learn more about Hercules along with me.

This is from Hercule’s blog: “I am a pleasure coach who works with women and couples to help them explore the intimate parts of their lives through the use of touch and communication.”  I cannot wait to hear all about the important work Hercules does to teach women that pleasure IS THEIR birthright! We will see if he has any special erotic massage techniques around the g-spot and blended orgasms, too.

Want to join our Fan Page? Check us out at http://www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection

To tune in on March 3rd, go here at http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/BlissRadio as we stream live at 11 a.m. Pacific.

Silver Bullet

I was reminded of this topic last night at my Bliss Pleasure Party. I did a pleasure party here in the Bay Area and most of the women in attendance were over 40. (Sidebar: WOO HOO!)  But, there were two women in attendance that were around 25 years old and both were newly married. I did my best not to scare them, but the party discussion may have startled them a bit. You get 10 women all over 40 in one room with some champagne and strawberries and well, the TRUTH COMES OUT no matter how much I try to sugar coat it.

So, when it came time for the ordering, each woman came back into the room where I have my Bliss store set up and that’s where they do their buying of our products. It’s a cool business model. No one wants to wait for sex toys that is for sure. Our Bliss parties are all about instant gratification. So anyone who wants to buy one can take it home that night.

When the more mature women came back in the room to shop, they each knew what they wanted EXACTLY. 1 bottle of Eros. CHECK.  1 tin of Kama Sutra Honey Dust. CHECK. 1 Love Ring. CHECK. 1 G-Spot Rabbit. CHECK. 1 box of penis rings. CHECK. 1 Anal Vibe. CHECK.  These women were NO HOLDS BARRED, KATIE BAR THE DOOR, my husband and I will take one of everything!  Love these smart, confident, sexy, mature women. It was just so much fun. A great evening that was all about a fab dialogue about what works for some of us and what doesn’t work for others of us.

But, then came in the younger women. I so feel for them. I was 25 once. I remember not really having a clue and not even realizing I didn’t have a clue. I kept telling them “I promise, it gets much much better.” They were nervous about what their husbands would think. They were nervous about getting addicted to a vibrator. They were not sure how to use them, what to do with them, what would happen…. they had never even had a “back massager.”  I thought every girl had experience with a back massager or a shower massager!

So, where to start? I think a toy like the simple Silver Bullet is a great toy for women who have never had a sex toy before or for women who have never had an orgasm before.  It’s pretty much a guaranteed orgasm if you put it on your clitoris and turn it on! I also like that it is very UNASSUMING and should not scare away a male partner that might be anxious about a vibrator. (Though we know that really smart men know that sex toys do all the heavy lifting for them!)  I suggested that to both of them as a great jumping off point. So often women have only heard of the rabbit and so they think they need to have one. Of course, I would love to sell them a rabbit as I love and adore them myself and hey are around $100 compared to $14. But, I just cannot, in good conscience, sell them a rabbit when they are brand new to sex toys. I tell them to start off with the bullet, or the slender sensations or even the butterfly kiss. Once they figure out HOW A VIBRATOR will change their life, they will be back! (Like with a crack dealer, right? First rock is free!) 

One of the things we discussed is that when you have sex with the same person for a long long time, eventually you have to find some ways to keep it interesting. They both agreed with me on that one. So, I think they both have bright futures and their relationships seem strong and since their husbands are young, too, I know it will just take some gentle persuasion and they will be well on their way to wedded Bliss! (Here is an article I wrote called “13 Ways to Use the Silver Bullet.”)

Want to know more about our Bliss Pleasure Parties or our Online Sex Toy Store? Join us on Facebook at http://www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection and let’s keep in touch!

Allana Pratt

ALLANA PRATT is Redefining Sensuality. She’s the author of “How To Be And Stay Sexy”, a featured columnist for eHarmony, a #1 rated Radio Host and a seasoned TV Expert on CBS, TLC, FOX, The Learning Annex, AirAmerica.com, Forbes and Christian Carter’s Catch Him and Keep Him.

As the Sexy Mom Expert featured on LeezaLIVE, Hollywood Confidential and MOMTV.com, People Magazine reported Allana was the first person Leeza Gibbons called for coaching when she signed on with Dancing with the Stars.

Allana’s interviewed everyone from Whoopi Goldberg to Debbie Ford who tell her things they may not have told themselves. If you permanently want to switch your mindset and your heartset from feeling “overwhelmed, crunchy and lacking” to “luscious, confident and abundant” in life, love and motherhood, join Allana as she hosts her Live Webcast on MingleMedia.com and nourish yourself with her Sexy, Soulful & Rich Collection. Allana’s a small town Canadian girl at heart who lives in LA with her son Gabe and she’s here to empower you to claim your sacred sensual birthright and fill up your tanks because when mama’s happy, everybody’s happy!

Tune in March 3rd at 11 a.m. P.S.T. on http://www.BlogTalkRadio.com/BlissRadio  as we talk with this amazing author about how to be and stay luscious!

Amorous Vibe

Every single time I show  the  Cal Exotics Amorous “petite couture collection” pink 4.75″ rabbit style vibrator at one of our Bliss Pleasure Parties, I get a chorus of “ooooooh, what is that?”

It’s all about the SWIRL that gets them drooling and suddenly paying close attention to me! The tip - the top 1.5″ of this toy - swirls and spins around very gently and seductively. (It’s almost like a gentle tongue action as it spins around.)  BUY AMOROUS HERE

It helps that this vibrator is very pretty, sleek and super quiet. It quietly rotates around at the tip while the dolphin looking nose vibrates with 7 speeds of pulsations and escalations for clitoral stimulation.  The rotating shaft has three speeds. Change them all around for all kinds of different combinations of fun.  If you have ever read my blog at all, you know the TLC 5 Speed Bullet is my all time favorite toy ever. This Amorous Vibe toy has 7 speeds! As Wendy Williams would say ” how you doin?”

I am a big fan of the petite couture collection from Cal Exotics. This line of products from Cal Exotics is luxurious, well crafted, sleek, pretty, not tacky or too obtuse. Very discreet, soft lines and curves designed for the soft lines and curves of a woman’s body. FINALLY is all I have to say.

This toy from Cal Exotics is also made with medical grade silicone so it is made with body safe materials and has a very velvety feel to the shaft and the clitoral stimulator. Again, they have the cool new battery pack which is easy to open and close. It has a water tight seal so you can use it in your bed or in your tub. (Oh yah!) The Amorous vibe has lots of power thanks to the 3 AAA batteries and is super quiet. It’s definitely one of the quietest toys we have tried in a very long time. The noise level is a real concern for women who get distracted by the sound and for women with kids who don’t want to ADVERTISE to their family that they are using a vibrator. The super quiet toys can help women stay focused on the moment and not have their brain drift off wondering WHO can hear them playing with their toy. (Oh and the buttons are super easy to click and press, too.)

We are giving this toy 4.5 out of 5 hearts on the BlissConnection.com heart throb scale!  Way to go Cal Exotics and thank you for listening to our customers and those of us who hear from women on a daily basis that we want quality, quiet, waterproof, body safe materials and toys that are artful! You delivered and we AMORE the AMOROUS.

Want to learn more about www.BlissConnection.com?  Join our Facebook Fan Page at http://www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection  or browse our very tasteful online romance store and you can shop for this lovely and artful vibrator on our website.

Tune in to our weekly radio show and podcast on http://www.Bliss-Radio.com/Tune-In  as we stream live every Wednesday morning at 11 a.m. Pacific. You can also hear out podcasts all about sex toys, sex, dating, marriage, relationships and more - just go to iTunes.com and search on Better Sex Radio or Bliss Radio. Our show is called “Everyone Wants to Have Better Sex.”

There are SO MANY ways to use this delish edible organic body dust from BlissConnection.com .  This lovely tin can comes with this beautiful feather duster and one can of Honey Dust will last you about 3 - 5 years. You just need a little each time you use it. It turns out that HONEY is a great skin softener and skin conditioner, so it also makes your skin extra soft and velvety.

1. You can use Honey Dust from BlissConnection.com to keep you dry. It’s especially great for women with large breasts - just lift up the girls and cover then in honey dust. You can put it in the bra to keep you dry and smelling good. No one likes bewbie sweat.

2. You can skip washing your hair 1 day a week and sprinkle a little bit on your scalp with the feather duster. The corn starch in the dust absorbs the oil and the honeysuckle scent makes your hair smell good for an extra day or two. Gives you nice body at the crown, too.

3. If you do not like to give him oral because you do not like the way he smells or taste, you can dust his JEWELS with some honey dust and he will smell sweet and fresh. It’s totally edible and organic. (Great for the schweatty balls!) We call them HONEY NUTS and it’s very fun to give your guy a b.j. and find little honey dust surprises here and there.

4. If you have a wet spot on your bed, you can sprinkle a little onto the wetspot and it absorbs into the powder. Get a tissue and just clean up the honey dust and your bed will be dry and smell good until you can change your sheets the next day.  (Also great for when your sheets are smelling a little musty or funky. Freshens up your sheets, your pillows and your mattress,too.)

6. If you are not feeling 100% confident about recieving oral sex, dust yourself with some Honey Dust. It will make you smell good, taste good and feel good. It’s safe to use on the inner thighs, the labia, in your panties or g-string. Again, it’s just honey and corn starch… so no talc in this product. (Some research suggests talcum powder is not safe for women.)

7. In the summertime, when it’s super HOT and you don’t want to have sex because it’s way too hot…dust you and your partner with the Honey Dust and it will keep you from sticking together while you have a quickie! Feels fantastic and silky on your skin.

8.  There are many other ways to use the edible and organic Honey Dust…. my friend Julie from JewelSexpression.com loves to use it when she slips on her boots to make it easier to slide them on.  I think it’s fantastic in your shoes and sandals to keep them smelling fresh. You can even dust a bit inside your blouse or bra. This is such a beautiful, decadent, luxurious product from Kama Sutra and it’s so affordable, too.

This is the best SENSUAL BODY POWDER and you can’t go wrong with any of the Kama Sutra products. They make the highest quality products and we carry lots of the Kama Sutra products on our very tasteful online romance store BlissConnection.com

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Ready to book a Pleasure Party in the Bay Area? Book your Bliss Pleasure Party http://blissparty.genbook.com  We do pleasure parties all over San Jose, Palo Alto, Milpitas, Santa Clara, Fremont, Cupertino, Sunnyvale, Mountain View and all over the Bay Area.

Secret to Ultimate Living

My friend and accomplished life coach Susan Liddy had this on her “Secret to Ultimate Living” blogsite and I just loved it so much, I had to ask her permission to STEAL this idea and post it on my blog, too. 

Susan asked her readers on her blog  “If you were to take yourself out on a date, where would you go?” Please click over to her blog and read the results.  But, I want to ask you each the same question and I am excited to read your answers here. 

Please post your own Dream Date and, if you own a business or write a blog, please post your URL in your COMMENT that way the various readers can connect with you. (If you are single, maybe this will result in some special kind of Bliss Connection…but, you do not have to be single to reply.) We want to hear everyone’s dream date.  Straight, gay, male, female, single, married, it’s complicated… post for us your dream date and let’s keep it going. Who knows who you might inspire.

I will post this on our Facebook Fan Page, too. If you want to connect with us on Facebook, our fan page is http://www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection  and we would love to count you as a Bliss fan.

Facebook Fan Page

In case you are not familiar with Bliss - we are a very tasteful online romance store BlissConnection.com and we are elevating the concept of great sex through romance products. We also have an Award Winning Radio Show called Better Sex Radio and we do Sex Toy Parties all over the Bay Area.