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People get piercings for all kinds of reasons, but with body and genital piercings there’s usually one reason that trumps the others: they like the way they feel. Let’s face it, it’s not like you are going to get your nipple pierced because you want to show off your new jewelry at the office. (Well, not most offices, anyway!) Piercings are like sex toys you can have with you all the time. Best of all, no one has to know! Sexual stimulation comes in all forms, which is why Bliss Connection celebrates any safe practice that rocks your world – including piercings!

Different piercings bring new sexual excitement depending on the area of the body.  Tongue piercings take oral sex to a whole new level, giving both men and women totally different sensations. Freezing a tongue piercing with an ice cube or sucking on a strong mint ahead of time makes it even more intense. Nipple rings are incredible for women (and men) who are turned on by nipple stimulation. And ladies, if you’ve had a few children and your nipple sensations have dropped off the charts, a nipple ring is a fun way to bring them back.

Women can pierce the clitoral hood or the inner or outer vulva, among other areas of the vagina. Clitoral hood piercings are popular for a reason: they seriously amp up the sensations. For the guys, penis piercings (some called Prince Alberts) can enhance sexual pleasure for both parties, but use caution with condoms. Guys should also be warned that some women might not like how your piercing feels. Men can pierce their penises in different locations, depending on the sensation they’re looking for.

If you’re going to pierce a sensitive area of your body, make sure it’s done by someone reputable who uses sterilized tools. Be vigilant about keeping your piercing clean, especially when it’s new, because besides the health risk, an infected piercing will put a serious damper on your sex life.  Depending on the piercing, you may have to abstain from any sexual activity for a bit in order to let the piercing heal.

Once you’re cleared for takeoff, go ahead and rock that piercing! Try out your sex toys with the new adornment, and see how it feels. Let your partner play around with it. If you’ve had piercings that have given your sex life a new spin, let us know!

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Resentment. Sometimes the third person in a marriage or relationship. Sometimes like the pink elephant in the room. According to Webster’s Dictionary resentment comes from “being treated unfairly.” I would take it a step further and say that it’s more like the “perception that you have been treated unfairly.” Resentment NEVER leads to hot sex.

Relationships and marriages are f*cking tough. I have been heard, on more then one occasion, of saying that being in a long term relationship is one of the hardest things I have ever attempted to do. Atleast with your family, when your relationships are strained or difficult – they can’t leave you. You’re stuck with them and they are stuck with you. (Well, the could leave you but you know what I mean.) In a marriage or a LTR, you know that it can end.

Most people think that adding sex toys and bondage gear are the way you can SPICE up your sex life. Do you want to learn the 3 Things to End Bedroom Boredom from a sex toy expert like me and then go and buy those three things? Well, bad news.  I am here to tell you right now – the best way you can spice up your sex life is to TALK with your partner about your sex life.  (And, yes I do have a blog called “3 Ways to Beat Bedroom Boredom” and tons of other blogs about sex toys and how they can improve your sex life. But, honestly, the best way to improve your sex life is to communicate with your lover about your sex life.”

Yes, TALK. Communication is hella sexy.

Everyone  sitting in their respective “corners” having a full on conversation in their own head about what you think your lover or partner might say when you bring it up is USELESS. You have to talk about it on occasion, dear reader. No matter how uncomfortable it may be. Practice makes perfect and the more you talk about it, the easier it gets. You have to model the behavior you want to see in your sex life. And, as my friend and Sex Educator Reid Mihalko says ” Be the change you want to see in your bedroom.” Take the Ghandi approach.

I am blogging about this tonight because the last 10 days this theme keeps coming up. I met a woman last week who has not had sex with her husband in over a year. Yes. She still loves him. Yes. She wants to stay with him. But, she has no idea how to get over the resentments she feels towards him. She asked me for advice at the Bliss Pleasure Party I was doing to see if I had any ideas. She misses having sex with him and the affection, but they can’t see to bridge that gap. They have been together for 15 years.

I posted this question on my Bliss Facebook page and got some awesome ideas and responses from my Bliss fans and customers. Here are some of the ideas for how to start working on the resentment and try to get back together in their bedroom:

From AJ:  Have sex then spoon then fall asleep.  wake up the next morning kiss then discuss the previous issues and agree to either leave it in the past and move forward or to move on from each other.

From LED:  In my mediator training I noticed that resentment is usually a sign that a person doesn’t feel heard or recognized related to one or more issues. Creating a setting where each of the resentments can be heard (“active listening”) in turn, with the follow-up question of “what would you need for it to be all better?” When all’s said and done, once a person feels that they were heard and their pain recognized, a sincere apology is all they need. And then, then, then comes the “first date.” Since there’s water under the bridge, that is better than trying to pick up where they left off. Do the whole thing. Dress up, restaurant, cocktails, being nervous, having some BlissConnection surprises hidden around the bedroom…

From JH: Therapy. And I mean that sincerely. Solo and couple. Doesn’t have to be long term… it’s so helpful to have a person mediate that doesn’t pick sides.

From KH: Sometimes it helps to write each other a letter. It helps you understand your own feelings better as well as the other person’s. Either talk them over or write letters back and forth until each person feels resolve. GOOD LUCK! Let love win!

From LH: I have one:Each person make a list of every grievance for the past year.  Leave nothing out. Next, each grab a big handful of dried beans.  Find a spot outside.  Stand back-to-back and pace off 20 steps from each other, so that you’re standing at least 20 feet from each other.  Turn and face each other–and start saying (LOUD!) one by one, all the things that you are mad about or resentful about, all the while throwing at the other person a dried bean for each statement as you say it.  Continue until you’re totally empty of things to say. ( Refill beans as necessary.)  It’s important to be at least 20+ feet distance from each other, so everyone has his/her own space,  feels safe, and emotions don’t flair.  The throwing of the little beans really rids the emotions kinesthetically (and it frankly feels a little silly, so it helps keep the drama out of it).  This was one of the techniques our incredible therapist taught to my ex-hub and me in our “how to fight” training.  We did this exercise, ended up laughing and feeling the closest to each other that we’d ever felt. We got engaged shortly thereafter.  It works.

Do you have any other ideas for couples who are dealing with the NO SEX and the RESENTMENT issues we all are familiar with and that come up in all relationships? Please share them here if you do.

Blissfully, Chrystal Bougon

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Does a truly “sure thing” exist? Oprah and Dr. Berman seem to think so, since that’s what they called the Aphrodite sex toy on “Oprah’s Best Life” series. Dr. Berman created the Aphrodite just for women who have trouble achieving orgasm – and ladies there are more women out there who are missing out than you might think! That’s a situation we’re trying to change at Bliss Connection by bringing you sex toys like the Aphrodite.

What makes the Aphrodite stand out among sex toys is that it has a warming infrared head on one side and interchangeable silicone attachments on the other. The smooth, pinpoint and nubby heads will give you a variety of sensations – play around and experiment with it to see what you like best! I love that the silicone attachments are a little bit soft and flexible, and that you can bend the head to get just the right angle. It has two speeds (low and high) but you can only use the infrared head on the low speed.

Another sweet thing about the Aphrodite is that the infrared heat makes it a nice all-over massager. Start with a sexy exotic massage with your partner and let the Aphrodite do its thing. If you need some tips on how to use the Aphrodite with your partner, check out this blog post about 9 Ways to Use Your Vibrator With Your Guy.

The Aphrodite is a rechargeable sex toy, so while there’s no messing around with a cumbersome cord or scrambling for fresh batteries, you have to remember to fully charge it if you don’t want the vibrator dying at a crucial moment. You’ll definitely want to give it a full 24 hours to charge up before you first try it out, and try to charge it for 12 hours between uses if you want it to perform at its best. The Aphrodite is not the quietest vibrator we carry, nor is it what I’d call petite – but that’s not necessarily a bad thing, it just depends on what you’re in the market for, and after all, Oprah called it a “sure thing!”

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There are certain sex toys that everyone has heard of. There’s the Pocket Rocket (mostly thanks to Howard Stern who brings it up on the air often), the Hitachi Magic Wand, the Pearl Rabbit ,  Ben Wa Balls, the Fleshlight (for men)  and hopefully, the Silver Bullet. These toys are part of the lexicon and a part of pop culture.

Sadly, the sex toys that are used in pornography often happen to be some of the crappiest sex toys known to man. (IMHO!)  They always seem to use those shiny “missile” style toys that look like a rocket ship.  BOOO! Women rarely buy those missile style vibrators. Most women are not looking for something made of hard, cheap plastic and that looks like a big rocket ship. Just my two cents. I have been educating and entertaining women and couples about sex toys for over 10 years. Women rarely ask for something that is shiny, 10″ long and made with hard plastic.

So, here are 7 Sex Toys I think all Women Need to Try Before You Die!

1. The Original Rabbit Pearl first invented and shipped in 1984. This toy was made famous by that episdoe of “Sex and the City” where Charlotte would not leave her penthouse suite to have brunch with the girls. They SATC characters had to form an intervention to get her to leave her rabbit… and with good reason!  This “twice as nice” toy gives a woman about 3 – 4″ of penetration with simultaneous clitoral stimulation from the rabbit ears. The ears hug your clitoris. The rotation of the pearls hit you at your vaginal entrance where we women get a nice concentration of nerve endings. The rabbit ears hits your clitoris just perfectly to stimulate all 8,000 nerve endings there. (And let’s not forget that the original rabbit made by Vibratex is made in Japan with Honda motor parts!)

2. The Hitachi Magic Wand is one that almost everyone from your grandma to your kids school teacher seems to know about. It looks like a back massager, but the massager feels good anywhere and everywhere on your body. This is a very popular toy among gay women and we all know that lesbians know their sex toys.

3. The Rock Box is a newer toy and another electric toy like the Hitachi Magic Wand. It looks like a big tongue and it can be very powerful. It’s so powerful that the manufacturer suggests you try it OVER your clothes before you graduate to trying it on your bare naked clitoris or penis. It has a dial on the toy that can amp it up to anywhere from a 1 to a 10.  Very very fun. (Here is my sex toy review of the Rock Box.)

4. The rechargeable Lelo Nea is so small, compact and versatile. It’s a teeny tiny little bundle of fun. It is rechargeable so no batteries required. It fits perfectly over your pubic bone for clitoral vibration and it’s small enough you can drop it in your panties and use it as a hands free vibrator when you’re out and about! Plus it’s artful, beautiful and strong!

5. The Lia Magic Wand from Cal Exotics is a newer favorite of mine. I am so convinced that a woman designed this toy. For starters, this toy’s vibration feels more like the Philips Sonic Care toothbrush. It has 10 speeds or as they say “magical functions.” Two things I love about this toy… it has a KILL button so when someone interrupts you it’s easy to shut the toy off with one buttons. (Great if you have kids.) And, like a good man – this toy remembers your favorite speed. If you like speed 4 alot it will notice it and the next time you use it, it will start on speed 4. The vibration is so totally different from the other toys I have tried. This toy also has a g-spot “bend” to it so you can use it for g-spot vibration or clitoral stimulation.

5 Speed Bullet

6. The 5 Speed Bullet if my ALL TIME favorite toy so I had to put this on the list. I love the simplicity of this vibrator and how affordable it is. But, why I really love this toy is for all of the pulsations and escalations of this vibrator. It has 5 speed and uses a 9volt battery for lots of power. Speed 2 is what I always refer to as the speed of sex. Speed 1 teases you. Speed 2 and Speed 3 make it happen. And, I always joke that Speed 5 is only for special occasions! It’s a lot of power and not for every day use.

7. The Fleshlight for all of our male customers. And, this can be a fun toy for couples as well. The fleshlight is likely the number one selling male sex toy. I have no way to verify that, but based on the amount of marketing and advertising they do, I am pretty sure they sell millions of them every year. Every man I have ever know who has tried it RAVES about it and they even make a Fleshlight Stamina Trainer which can help men to last longer! Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Since most women need 5 to 20 womens to climax, this is a cool tool for couples.

Are there other toys you would add to this “try before you die” list? I would love to hear your comments below.

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What happens when a couple breaks up? Who gets “custody” of the sex toys? Do you each get to pick a favorite, or do you take back what you brought into the relationship, then divide the rest evenly? What about the toys that were gifts to each other, or the ones that are specifically intended for couples to use together? It’s a tricky question, but one worth thinking about.

I don’t know about you, but my personal collection of sex toys is worth more than gold to me. I have favorites for times when I’m solo, and others that are  just as fun with my guy! Some are amazing during foreplay, while others take intercourse into new realms and I always know just which one to reach for. Not to mention, my sex toys are among my most intimate possessions – definitely not the kind of thing I’ll be loaning to a neighbor anytime soon. So the idea of having to part ways with even part of my collection makes me squirm.

Sex toys are not just playthings (though they’re fun for play!) they are a part of your intimate relationship, too – part of your connection to your partner.  That can make it hard to figure out what to do with your toys when the relationship has gone south. If you’ve kept them clearly defined as “Mine” and “Yours” then there’s not much of an issue – take your stuff and go! It’s the shared toys that pose a bigger problem. The idea of you using those toys with a new partner might not go over very well with your ex…and you might not love the idea of your partner sharing your favorite toy with a new love interest either!

Is it even OK for women to keep the same sex toys from partner to partner? What about men – is it different for guys? How would you feel if your partner brought sex toys from a past relationship into your sex life? Would you be comfortable with that?

It would be great to have a Sex Toy Prenuptial. Spell out exactly what you’ve brought into the bedroom, and what you’re entitled to take with you. That way you avoid post-split battles and don’t risk losing your favorite toys. Hey lawyers – here’s a new specialty!

Have you had to divide your sex toys after a breakup? How did you handle the situation? For brand new toys to add to your collection, check out our online store at http://www.BlissConnection.com.

Handy Tips for Regular Couples who want to Kink it up a little “50 Shades of Grey” style

So, the hype around this book ” 50 Shades of Grey ” has been just  insane. And, I have read the first two books of this trilogy and have been letting it all roll around in my head and trying to figure out what men can take away from this book. Since this book is helping couples to have all kinds of great sex since women all over the country are reading it – it sort of kept making me think that I should write a blog about “What Men can learn from 50 Shades of Grey.” But, that’s not fair putting all the pressure on the guys!

I believe that if you want to see any change you in your bedroom or your sex life, then you have to make it happen. So, I decided to write a blog to create some bullet points about what couples of all variations can learn from the book! Not just men. That’s more fair, right? I hate to put all the pressure on the guys. So, I decided to change the focus and make this an article that can maybe help everyone and anyone who wants to improve their sex life. What can we learn from Christian Grey and Anastasia Steel? Here are some of the ideas I came up with after reading about all of their hot, kinky sex. (And, remember. Their relationship is new. Everyone’s sex life is crazy hot and spontaneous when it’s new.)

What can we all learn from 50 Shades of Grey? Tips for kinking up and your sex life and bringing more intensity and frequency to your sex life:

1. PLAN: If you want to have a juicy, connected, intense sex life then someone’s got to do the planning!  Yes, date night is trite and the term is overused. But, very few things in your life happen spontaneously when you are over 30 and have kids. Why leave your sex life up to fate? Make it happen. Plan a naughty play date. PLAN PLAN PLAN.

2. Take turns. Set dates. Take turns. Talk about it. Build up to it. It’s so hard to “surprise” the person you are living with or married to. When you have sex with the same person over and over again for years and years, it’s really hard to find that element of surprise and new. But, if you do some planning and get creative – you can do it! (Bring the dirty dice out with you! Roll them at the restaurant or where ever you two go for some alone time.)

3. Initiate. Everyone wants to be pursued. It gets boring for one partner when one of you initiates all of the time! Mix it up. Make your partner feel HOT and WANTED by initiating half the time. Chase him around. Chase her around! Make it fun.

4. Notice: Christian Grey is VERY good and noticing how sexy, pretty or hot Miss Steele looks. Men LOVE by seeing. Women LOVE from hearing. Make sure your lover knows how pretty she is. How intoxicatingly hot she is. Ladies, make sure your man knows you think he is sex on a stick. We often THINK these things, but sometimes we forget to verbalize. I hear from thousands of women each year that they feel like their husband doesn’t even see them any more. Stop and SEE your lover and tell them what you see. (What are you waiting for to SURRENDER and have the best sex of your life? Do it now! Blog about letting go that we wrote last Fall.)

5. Be Deliberate. Slow it down. Speed it up. Whatever it is you are doing, practice the old “tell ‘em what you’re gonna tell em. Tell ‘em. Then tell ‘em what you just told ‘em.”  Verblize what you are going to do. Christian Grey is often saying things like “later tonight, after we get home I am going to take your clothes off, blindfold you and tease you mercilessly with my fingers and tongue. Then I am going to fuck you like the pretty slut that you are.” He is being deliberate. He is telling her what he is going to do to her. Then he does it. Then later he reminds her of what he did to her. HOT! (Blog we wrote on how the book 50 Shades of Grey helped one of my friends.)

6. Power Exchange: Take turns giving up control. When you get to be the submissive in your bedroom, it’s like a little mini vacation from all of your stress, bills, worries, kids, problems, and work. You just get to “be” and exist for your lovers pleasure. If you are new to kink and swapping roles, start off with just a blindfold. Put it on him and have fun with his body. Or maybe let him just tie up one arm or hand. You don’t have to start with anything extreme. Just dip your toes into the power exchange. Relax and enjoy his exploration of your body. See what happens to him or her when you are wearing a blindfold. It can be very intense.

7. Open Up. Be a blank slate. No judging. Let go of all of the old stuff you grew up thinking. Kinky girls are bad girls? Only slutty women enjoy being spanked or tied up? Who says? Stop the inner chatter and just go with it. Open your mind and I promise your sex life will become amazing. Don’t let society’s rules stop you from enjoying all of the pleasure your body was made to recieve. Let your hair down. If it makes you more comfortable, create a character that you can become every time you two want to get kinky. Sort of like your kinky alter ego. Give her a name if you want to. Lovers should be comfortable enough around each other to be as naughty or kinky as they want to me. So, you start by creating that kind of environment for your lover.

8. Start slow. Buy some nice paddles or some fuzzy love cuffs. Don’t try to go from vanilla right to hog tied and door cuffs. You can even use some things around your house to just kink it up a notch. (We have a guest blog from Mistress Arabella about how to kink up your sex life on a budget. Bondage on a budget. Get it?)

9. Communicate. Have you noticed that everything in life gets better with more communication? It’s true of your sex life, too. The more often you talk about it with your lover, the better it’s going to become. Busy couples often go years and years without talking about the state of their own sex lives. You cannot go from NEVER talking about it to talking about getting kinky. So, start today. Make some time to talk to your lover about how things are sexually for the two of you. Is there anything he or she has always wanted to try? Talk about how you might use some of your sex toys together. Browse an online store together. See what interests him or you. (9 Ways to use a Sex Toy together.)

Do you have any other suggestions for ways couple can take what we’ve learned from “50 Shades of Grey” and apply them to the REAL WORLD. Because, let’s face it. Very few of us are billionaires or 22 year old virgins like in the book. We want to share real tips for real people here!  Comments below or join the dialogue on Facebook.    www.Facebook.com/BlissConnection

Blissfully, Chrystal Bougon

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This toy is just beautiful to look at, isn’t it? It doesn’t hurt that purple is my favorite color. This is sort of a plum color, but it is gorgeous. As I said on my online store about this toy … “it’s like buttah!”  (BTW, I did also write a 5 star review for another Jopen rechargeable toy called the vr7 here. )

Jopen.com makes all of these unique looking rechargeable sex toys for women. They are all beautiful and you have to love the fact that there are no batteries required! It plugs into a little plug that looks like a cell phone charger. Purrfect!

I love pretty much all style of “twice as nice” toys which are the style of toys that give you a little bit of penetration and clitoral stimulation all in one toy. Let’s face it. We need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm most times. And, this toy provides just that. And I love that the Jopen line is waterproof and super quiet. And, my favorite way to clean this toy and all of my own personal sex toys is with an unscented baby wipes! (And here is a blog that I wrote with some tips for helping your sex toys to last longer.)

So, to the toy. Ok, I am giving it 5 stars out of 5 stars. I wish it were more affordable, but it is a luxurious sex toy and worth every penny if you have the budget.  When you first receive it, it only takes 4 hours to give it a full charge and the charge lasts forever and ever. Seriously impressed. Much better charge then my damn droid cell phones from Verizon.

This toy is great for Moms and people who have roommates because it is one of the quietest toys I have ever used. And, I know the sound level of some toys can actually make it difficult for women to climax. Many times, when you get a toy with a clit stimulator, they can get REALLY loud…. especially when you are pushing it down on your clitoris. Not this one! Love that. I think the women who desiged the Jopen toys have kids at home maybe. And I love how flexy and bendy the beautiful clitoral stimulator is on this toy. You can do all kind of positions and gyrations with this super bendy “musical note” looking vibrator!

Your partner can have you in their arms and have the toy in their hands using it softly all over your body and can continue to make out with you or kiss you all over while using the toy all over. When the time is right, they can begin using it all over your inner thighs and go from there to the really good bits!

Something that is also very unique about the Jopen.com toys is their warranty. All of Jopen.com ‘s toys have a 1 year warranty and an optional 10 year guarantee. That is pretty amazing and super cool given that this toy is on the high end side of life when it comes to sex toys.

You can buy the Jopen vr5 from Bliss and use the coupon code VIP for 15% off this luxury sex toy.

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Ladies, would you ever pay for a massage with a “happy ending?” Would you walk into a massage parlor and ask for a little something extra? A sexy masseuse is the stuff fantasies are made of, but if most of you ladies are like me, you’d have some requirements. Not just any masseuse would do! He’d have to look good, smell yummy, and (of course) be willing to give an incredible 2-hour full body massage before moving on to the happy ending!

Men have been getting “happy ending” massages – a massage that ends with an orgasm – for eons. It’s often an “off the menu” practice in certain massage parlors (and not necessarily legal, depending on your state). They even review them online – in case you’re looking for the best in your neighborhood! It’s hard to know how much is truth and how much is fiction, but I guarantee you that if you ask any man you know, he’ll be able to tell you which local parlors offer a happy ending massage.

Men aren’t the only ones who need some bliss, but would women pay for that kind of service? It isn’t something that is talked about for women the way it is for men. Do you remember the Sex and the City Episode where Samantha gets a surprisingly satisfying foot massage? That’s one of the few references I’ve seen to a woman getting a happy ending from her massage.

Ideally, you and your partner could create your own happy ending scenario with an intimate erotic massage.  What a fabulous opportunity for a little role-playing! Get out the scented and flavored massage oils, light some candles and get creative – go for a spa-like ambiance.  If you want a little bit of guidance, try an erotic massage technique book for some inspiration.

If you’re looking to add to your toy collection for happy endings every time, check out our online store at http://www.BlissConnection.com.

This topic came up at my Pleasure Party on Saturday night. Since strong is the new sexy, would you

be flattered if someone said “wow, you look so strong?”

I read a recent survey that said that the favorite compliments women like to recieve are as follows:

1.  Wow, you look skinny. Or, “you look thinner.”

2. You have a beautiful smile.

3.  You smell so good. (Or my personal favorite, “you smell yummy.”)

According to “Ask Men” they say these compliments are ones that women cannot resist:

http://www.askmen.com/dating/player_250/250_love_games.html

1. I could talk to you all night long.

2. I like the way your mind works.

3. You look fantastic.

Personally, I think you can get yourself into trouble commenting about a woman’s weight. I would suggest you stick to something like “that color looks fantastic on you” or “you look great in that” as opposed to saying you look thinner…which could imply you thought she looked fat the last time you saw her. (Some women are SUPER sensitive about their weight.)

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I am so excited to announce that we are now all caught up with the “50 Shades of Grey” trilogy and are ready to offer a new brand of Bliss Pleasure Party. Get ready to KINK up your sex life 50 Shades style! (Call us at 408-712-3809 to book yours.)

Do you and your friends want to learn more about light bondage, paddling and power exchange in the bedroom? Book a Bliss 50 Shades of Grey Pleasure Party, gather 8 to 10 of your girlfriends (ladies only) and we will come and entertain and educate you and your friends about the various bondage and submission scenes you may have read about in the 50 Shades trilogy. We will alos have a variety of paddles, crops and some fun “play” whips and other kinky goodies that may be new to you.

The cost is $350 for up to 8 women. (Each additional guest is $25.) $350 is the minimum required to host a Bliss “50 Shades of Grey” style ADVANCED (semi-kinky)  pleasure party. Call us a 408-712-3809 to get on our pleasure party calendar. (We will need approximately 2 to 3 hours total for the kinky pleasure party. No nudity. Ladies Only.)

Play Whip from BlissConnection.com

When we facilitate a “50 Shades” style pleasure party, each of your guests that have prepaid will each receive a naughty paddle to take home with them. (We sell them on our very tasteful online sex toy store BlissConnection.com )

All Bliss pleasure parties are tasteful, educational yet Ssssy. Ladies Only. We will faciliate a very educational pleasure party with an emphasis on kinky and bondage products that you can use in your own bedroom to kink up your own sex life.
We will show you paddles, floggers, feathers, beginners bondage kits, the doggy style strap, and other products that you can use for sensation play and power exchange place in the privacy of your own bedroom or dungeon. fI you would like more information, call us at 408-712-3809 or email us at blissconnection@gmail.com

Our standard Pleasure Party in San Jose is only a $30 deposit.

We also offer Blow Job Pleasure Parties and you can read more about our oral sex classes in San Jose on our website link here: http://www.blisspartiesinc.com/Bliss_BJ_Workshop.html Blow Job Classes in San Jose

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Blissfully, Chrystal Bougon

P.S. We do offer other pleasure parties :  Fondue Pleasure Parties for busy Moms, Co-ed Pleasure Parties for mature couples who want to explore how to bring back the surprise and zest to their sex lives and are open to other custom pleasure party ideas for you and your friends.