Bay Area Girls’ Night Out Ideas

by Chrystal Bougon on September 15, 2010


Girls’ Night Resources for fantastic Mom’s Night Out or a Girls’ Night Out in San Jose and beyond. I was thinking about all of my friends who own businesses that are dedicated to giving us a well deserved night OFF and thought I would share all of those resources here with you! ( Please share this on Facebook and with your friends who might need some fun resources for their book club, their Mom’s Club, their bunko group or their bff’s.) Everyone loves a fun Girls’ Night Out party!

1.  Pleasure Parties by Bliss:  I will start us off with my company, BlissConnection.  We do very educational, yet sassy pleasure parties all over the Bay Area.  Our parties are a super fun night in. You invite your girlfriends over and we bring our mobile romance store to your home. Our presentations are a giggle fest, but everyone will walk away feeling like there were in a very sexe Sex Ed class with cocktails! Call us at 408-826-9087 to book your Pleasure Party. (Blog with Bliss Naughty Cocktail Recipes  for your next Girls’ Night Out or Girls’ Night In.)

2. Divalicioius Productions: Jen Jaciw and her team create “Decadent Ladies Night Out events that celebrate your Inner Goddess.”  Their DIVA nights are legendary here in the Bay Area. Recently I attended their “Eat, Pray, Love” Diva night. We started our evening by getting into the beautiful, luxury vehicles provided by Lone Star Limousines (Divalicious and Lone Star Limo are sister companies) and we rode in the limos to have Thai Food and then to see the movie. We even had Italian pastries in the limo with our adult beverages. 🙂  We ended up on the front page of the SJ Mercury News, too!  Cal Jen to book your limo or join one of her Diva events. Tel: 408-263-1593

3. Sedusa Studios: “Plan a Girls’ Night Out You Will Never Forget.”  Sedusa has a sensual / pole dancing studio here in Campbell, Walnut Creek and South San Francisco. Their studios are just stunning. I have my business office at Sedusa’s Campbell studio. From my office I can look out my window down onto the beautiful cherry hardwood floors punctuated with 9 gorgeous shimmering dance poles, burgundy walls and mirrors everywhere. 

Carol and her team offer fab girls’ night out parties at their pole dancing studios. You get about 10 – 12 of your friends together, bring some appetizers or some champagne and plan to have a blast. You might arrive a bit nervous, but you leave feeling beautiful and empowered.  Call Sedusa at 408-867-2224 to book your ladies night, your bachelorette party, your Mom’s group or any other fun group of women and learn to give a VERY sultry, sensual dance for your paramour.

4. Wine Tastings & More: Bring the Wine Country to your home. My friend Betty Kaufman hosts Wine Tasting parties in your home. HELLO! No brainer, right. You’re probably having a glass of wine right now! Maybe you’re already sharing a bottle of wine with a girlfriend. Betty is like your own personal home wine steward/sommelier.

For a small fee, she brings the Wine Shop at Home sampler pack of wine to your home. You invite about 12 – 15 of your friends over and Betty takes you on a tour of wine country. She teaches you how to savor, sniff, swirl and taste the beautiful wines she brings with her. No wine snobbery is allowed at her wine parties! Betty’s presentations are all about enjoying good wine with good friends.  They are a blast. Call Betty and book your Wine Tasting Party 650714-7009.

Do you have some other ideas for this resource page? Do you offer a service that cater’s to a Girls’ Night Out, then please leave your company information here in our Blog Comments section.


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Betty September 16, 2010 at 4:56 pm

What a great list. Thanks for including me on it. All of your suggestions are great!

Jen September 17, 2010 at 1:47 am

Thanks so much Chrystal! I love a good ladies night out and it has been a pleasure to work with these fabulous ladies, including yourself!
Divas, if there’s anything we can do to help customize a special activity for you and your BFF’s, please let us know.
Jen, and

Shawn September 17, 2010 at 5:55 am

Wow, great ideas. I’ve attended a Bliss party and had one of Betty’s wine tastings, which were both SO much fun. Now, I just have to try out the rest! Thanks for giving me some awesome options for my next shin dig!

clydelerner September 17, 2010 at 6:16 am

All sounds way, way, cool, Chrystal. I’m sure my new Office Manager Lisa will be attending several of these “women only” events in the near future! I’m sure she’ll add even more “life” to the parties!!

Kerry September 17, 2010 at 6:35 am

I love Chrystal’s Bliss parties! And I love Betty’s Wine Shop at Home Parties!
Here’s an idea for a fun ladies night:
I can throw an awesome Silpada Jewelry party where try on jewelry, eat my friend Susan’s appetizers (, have some drinks and get my friend Krystal who works at Lancome to do makeup! Then we all go out afterwards… 🙂
Call me to book a Silpada Jewelry party! 415-938-7481
Kerry Smith

Kerry Michelle Smith September 17, 2010 at 6:36 am

I love Chrystal’s Bliss parties! And I love Betty’s Wine Shop at Home Parties!
Here’s an idea for a fun ladies night:
I can throw an awesome Silpada Jewelry party where try on jewelry, eat my friend Susan’s appetizers (, have some drinks and get my friend Krystal who works at Lancome to do makeup! Then we all go out afterwards… 🙂
Call me to book a Silpada Jewelry party! 415-938-7481
Kerry Smith

Amanda September 17, 2010 at 5:17 pm

Everyone needs a girls night! I love that you suggest creative ways to have your girlfriends over for a fun night in, and ways to go out like the diva events. I have been to a diva event and a wine party at home and they were both fabulous. The next one on my list is a bliss pleasure party, it sounds so fun! I love that you set up a retail store at your event so the ladies have something to bring home!

Vicki September 17, 2010 at 8:25 pm

I’ve done 3 out of 4 listed. I guess I better sign up for some fun at Sedusa so I can check off all 4!
Love everything on this list. Thanks for spreading the good news!

Anonymous September 17, 2010 at 8:27 pm

We should do a group of us all on a Friday night maybe. I think it works out to like $35 each if we get a group of 10 or 12.

Betty Kaufman September 17, 2010 at 10:14 pm

If anybody is interested in scheduling a wine tasting, please call or email me at or 650-714-7009. You can have a 6-bottle tasting for $59 or a 4-bottle tasting for $39. The ideal group size is 10-12 people. Cheers!


Dr. Dorothy Ponton September 18, 2010 at 1:35 am

Chrystal, I’m loving the idea of a Pole Dancing party at Sedusa Studios. We were just discussing this at Book Club last night! Next month’s book is Candy Girl, by Diablo Cody, and a Girl’s Night Out is a perfect fit!

Magichandstina September 18, 2010 at 2:54 pm

Bliss Pleasure parties are an super fun night with the girls. They are tasteful and educational. You and your girlfriends will have tons of laughs too!
Add some wine too and it’s really a blast.
I have also had a birthday event at Sedusa and my gal pals and I had a wonderful time! Who hasn’t wanted to get their sexy on and swing around a stripper pole.
Very fun ideas feeling the need to get the girls together soon.

Kerry Michelle Smith September 18, 2010 at 6:53 pm

I’ve been meaning to take classes at Sedusa for a while. Is there an instructor there when you book a party, or do you all just hang out and do your own thing?

Kerry Michelle Smith September 18, 2010 at 6:56 pm

I’ve been to two Bliss parties. I love that Chrystal has the retail store at her home parties too! I’ve been to other pleasure parties where they didn’t have that. Bliss Pleasure Parties are the best. Chrystal is amazing! She makes everyone feel comfortable, tells funny stories, and keeps the ladies on track, because you know how we can be when we’ve had a bit to drink and are talking about sex ;o

Belakittie September 19, 2010 at 12:17 am

You have to Love living in Silicon Valley. I had a Bliss Party for all my out of town friends. They were blown away. Now we want to do an annual party. Combine that weekend by learning a Pole Dance at Sedusa Studios, and maybe their partners will let them come visit more often. We must try everything on your list Chrystal.

Sedusa September 19, 2010 at 12:22 am

What a great weekend. Sedusa Studios lends everyone 6″stilettos, then teaches you to exotic Pole Dance in our large studio with 12 (20ft pole). After getting learning a sexy empowering dance for your partner, have a Bliss Party and bring home toys for both of you. Now that is a way to light a “fire” in your relationship. Come dance with us and come play with Chrystal. ~ Carol

Tamara September 20, 2010 at 3:15 am

I’ve been to events by both Chrystal and Betty and can vouch fun and delicious! Have a great GNO with a twist ~ sip, slup, giggle, and moan ~ it’s all good…!

Chrystal Bougon September 19, 2010 at 11:18 pm

We love Sedusa, too, Belakittie!

Chrystal Bougon September 19, 2010 at 11:18 pm

Thanks Kerry. No one wants to wait for sex toys.

Jeaninembrown September 22, 2010 at 2:35 am

I have been to a Bliss party and had a great time. I was recently at a fundraiser where Chrystal was an exhibitor and she had a large crowd gathered around her.

Betty was also a vendor there and she ALSO had a large crowd.

These gals are great!

I have been a vendor at 2 Divalicous events and they rock too!!

Kathy S. September 23, 2010 at 1:01 am

Oh, I can vouch for every one of these businesses! Chrystal’s parties are a BLAST (have been to a few and have hosted one of my own). The whole party is fabulous, but the best part is you get to take your goodies home with you. Instant gratification! ; )

I attended a Divalicious Productions pin-up girl photo shoot (complete with hair and make-up session!), and my proud hubby displays his girl on his office desk. : )

Sedusa Studios teaches GREAT classes, and I’ve attended two of them (Sensual Dance and Lap Dance), and again the proud hubby! hehe

Betty Kaufman’s wine parties are fun and informative, as well as very tasty!

ALL of these are fabulous ideas for a fun girls night! Thanks for the reminder, Chrystal!

Alexandra September 28, 2010 at 7:19 am

Chrystal, thank you very much for the reminder to get out and have some fun! And for supporting our local small businesses while we are at it. Brava, brava!

Chrystal Bougon September 30, 2010 at 12:21 pm

Thank you so much, alexandra. Lots of fun girls’ night out ideas on this blog for sure.

Chrystal Bougon September 30, 2010 at 12:22 pm

Thank you, Kathy. You are a great hostess and the hostes always sets the tone.

Chrystal Bougon September 30, 2010 at 12:22 pm

Thanks so much, Jeanine. WE have done several of these fun girls’ night out ideas together, haven’t we. Looking forward to many more girls’ night out.

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