Better Sex Radio: Why are Men and Women having Lousy Sex

by Chrystal Bougon on December 13, 2009

Join us this week as we have Marriage & Sex Coach John Wilder on our Better Sex Radio Show on Dec. 16th. Tune in as we stream live on Wednesday at     

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From John’s Bio: “Many marriage counselors are not comfortable with dealing with specifics about your sex life.  I prepared to deal with it because there is no “school for sex” where guys and gals can go to learn to be great at sex.  I deal with female clients who tell me how lousy guys are in the sack.   I have a book that I am just finishing up tentatively titled:  YOU CAN ACHIEVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER AND IMPROVE YOUR LOVE LIFE TOO.  I detail the hows and whys of sexuality as well as teaching relationship skills and conflcit resolution skills in this book.
You will note that I claim to be a coach rather than a counselor.  The difference is that counselors remain neutral and talk about feelings where as coaches take a directive role and help couples resolve their problems. The other difference is how the therapy is delivered.  Marriage counselors give you one hour once a week.  This because they are regulated by the insurance company who will only let them charge for and see you for one hour once a week.  Coaches concentrate on resolving the problems in a very short time.”

Shall be very eye opening and I am looking forward to the ideas John has for couples to have BETTER sex and MORE Great Sex!

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John Wilder December 15, 2009 at 3:30 pm

Hey Chrystal:

I am indeed looking forward to talking to your listeners tomorrow. The beauty of blog radio is that we don’t have to worry about the FCC and decency standards. In this way, we can be free and frank in our discussions as any good chat about sex should be.

It is a bit of a surprise as to how Puritanical we still are in this country about sex. In Europe and other countries, it is much more open.

I want to talk about foreplay and how to really get a woman aroused and how once aroused she can go on to have multiple orgasms. I will be telling the men to slow down and when it comes to sex, it should always be ladies first. Typically once a guy has an orgasm, he is done and wants to roll over and go to sleep. I will giving guys another viewpoint to consider than the traditional roll over.

I will be teaching your listeners how to be a HERO IN THE BEDROOM.

Tell all of your friends to tune in, I am not shy and I don’t blush. There is nothing that you can tell me that will shock me.

John Wilder December 15, 2009 at 3:36 pm

Hey Chrystal:

I am really looking forward to chatting with your listeners about our favorite subject; sex.

It is surprising how puritanical we still are in this country about sex. Believe me in Europe it is much more open and natural.

The beauty of blog radio is that we don’t have the FCC hanging over us so that we can be as frank as we want to be in discussing sex.

I am going to teach your readers how to be real heros in the bedroom. I will be talling about foreplay and how to bring a woman to multiple orgasms through enough foreplay. I will definitely be telling the men that it should always be “ladies first” when it comes to orgasms.

Tell your friends to tune in and bring their most sensitive questions. You can’t shock me or make me blush. I will give you staight talk and no subject will be off limits,

Chrystal Bougon December 15, 2009 at 3:39 pm

Really looking forward to your ideas about foreplay and how couples can have more and better sex, John. Thanks. Please tune in this Wednesday at 11 a.m. Pacific at

Blissfully, Chrystal

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