3 Ways to Beat Bedroom Boredom

by Chrystal Bougon on June 14, 2009

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Bored in Bed

Bored in Bed

3 Ways to Beat Bedroom Boredom by Sex Expert & Pleasure Coach Chrystal Bougon

1.  Put the kids to bed, lock the bedroom door and snuggle in your bed with your laptop and your sweetie…..and browse a website like www.BlissConnection.com together with your paramour. When you do that, you get to shop together and see what interests your partner. You can also drop some major hints as to what interests you, too.  Fun way to get to know what tickles the fancy of your partner! Maybe even order something to build up some anticipation and re-live all of the fun when the item arrives.

2. Just for kicks, try having sex in your backyard.  CHANGE IT UP! How about the laundry room or the garage? Take a shower together. Let him or her soap you up! Go into the garage and get in your backseat of your car in your garage and pretend like you’re teenagers again. How about some dry humping, making out and an h.j.?  Most couples get stuck in a RUT. Almost all couples have a “dance” that they do over and over and over. It gets boring and tedious for both of you. Try something different. Little things can make all the difference….leave your panties on while you have sex. Stand up in front of the mirror. Do something out of character to bust you out of your ROUTINE. We all need variety. Do you normally “start” by giving him oral? How about starting with a little attention to his nipples instead?

3.  Take responsibility for the boredom in the bedroom and be the one that does something about it. More then likely, if you are bored so is your partner.  Be the partner who buys a new book on lovemaking. Talk with your partner about it. Tell him or her you are worried that your love life is getting stale and you want to be the one that does something about it. Sometimes that could be enough to get both of your imaginations going.  Go buy a new toy, a new book, take a field trip to the romance store, organize a NO KIDS night, schedule a massage for your partner, send a text message to him in the a.m. telling him you are feeling amorous….. build up some tension, anticipation and take charge. It is always sexy when one person takes charge!

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David Bruce Leonard June 25, 2009 at 1:02 pm

Here is a quote from my book, “How to Worship the Goddess and Keep Your Balls: A Man’s Guide to Sacred Sex”:

Please remember, to fully “Worship the Goddess”, we must be willing to f*** her like an animal, be as ingratiating and fawning as a groveling minion, or anything in between. Th

Chrystal Bougon June 25, 2009 at 1:11 pm

Good advice, David. Looking forward to your interview on Better Sex Radio! 🙂 It should be
very enlightening. Please include a link here for how my customers can buy your book.
Sounds like a great read! Thanks for joining the conversation. Please add me as
a friend on Facebook, too.

David Bruce Leonard June 26, 2009 at 12:56 am

Thanks, Chrystal.
How to Worship the Goddess and Keep Your Balls: A Man’s Guide to Sacred Sex is available here: http://www.davidbruceleonard.com/ROL_worshipthegoddess.html
Great Blessings …

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