August is Anal Sex Month

by Chrystal Bougon on July 14, 2014

anal sex picYah, I know, it’s not August yet.  But, this topic keeps coming up at our store Curvy Girl Lingerie and all over the Facebook pages I belong to, so I thought I would repost an oldie but a goodie.

9 Tips for Pain Free Anal Sex  (link is here)

As many of you know already, I have been educating and entertaining adults all over the Bay Area about how to incorporate sex toys into your sex life.  Almost 2 years ago, I also opened the FIRST EVER Plus Size Lingerie store here in San Jose, CA.

The topic of SEX comes up every single day. That happens when you sell lingerie and a few romance toys.  I wanted to share my Anal Sex tips with all of you and make it easier to find, because this topic comes up constantly.

There is a reason anal play feels so good. We were all born with approximately 6,000 nerve endings around our anus.  That’s a lot of pleasure ladies and gents!

Here is the link again to 9 tips for pain free anal sex.

If you haven’t joined in the fun, be sure to come and LIKE our Curvy Girl Lingerie Facebook page.  you will love the conversations we have there.

Sincerely, Chrystal Bougon  is our online store for our plus size lingerie. is our blog for our plus size lingerie store in San Jose, CA



Body Love Conference here I come!

by Chrystal Bougon on March 30, 2014

body-love-conference Body Love Conference April 5th

I am so excited to be traveling to Tucson, Arizona this week to be one of the presenters at the 1st ever Body Love Conference. If you are familiar with The Militant Baker, Tess Munster, Plus Size Mommy Memoirs or other Body Positivity Warriors who help teach that all bodies are beautiful …. then you may be familiar with this new conference.  It is the INSPIRING and AMAZING Jes Baker who came up with this idea and who is the mastermind behind this conference.

There are so many amazing women and speakers attending. I am excited to talk about Hot Sexy and the Curvy Girl this Saturday. But, I am more excited to meet The Militant Baker, Tess Munster of Eff Your Beauty Standards, Jen McLellan, founder of Plus Size Mommy Memoirs and some of my other body love sheros!  (And, if you don’t know me, My name is Chrystal Bougon and I am the founder and CEO (plus resident Curvy Girl) of the first ever plus size lingerie store in the entire U.S.   is our website / blog and our facebook page is

Not sure if the Body Love Conference is for you?  Here are some details from the BLC website:

“Who is The Body Love Conference for?

The Body Love Conference is for any woman who:

a) Has a body.

b) Is tired of being asked to shape up, slim down, camouflage or otherwise alter

and apologize for their body, in order to live up to unrealistic and deeply

harmful representations of the body in contemporary media culture.

c) Believes that it’s time to celebrate beauty in all its forms – including our bodies.”

And, I agree. It is time to APPRECIATE and ENJOY all bodies in all forms. And, as I like to say,


Stop Buying What the Media is Selling Stop Buying What the Media is Selling


Monogo-mish? Monogamous? One rule I like to suggest to my customers.

January 6, 2014

Swingers. Poly. Poly-curious. Monogamish. Ashley Madison. Cheating. Happy Endings. Open Marriages. Any anything else you can come up with for what you might call “playing sexually” outside of your committed relationship – I have just one rule I like to suggest to all of my Bliss and Curvy Girl customers. RULE:  If you cannot do […]

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10 Super Sexy Sex Toys for New Year’s Eve

December 22, 2013

Are you staying in this New Year’s Eve?  How about some sexy fun. Make a light dinner and maybe some chocolate fondue to share. Maybe get a little cream cheese frosting or some non dairy whip cream from the local sex toy store. :)  Stay in and make your own New Year’s Eve fireworks. Here […]

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Oral Sex is a GIFT – giving and receiving

December 17, 2013

This topic came up twice at my Curvy Girl Lingerie store today and I knew it was time to write this blog. It’s been percolating in my brain for years! I pretty much get out of bed in the morning for the possibility I might receive oral sex that day. (I am not even kind […]

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Cyber Monday sale on our sex toys online

December 2, 2013

You may know this, but the 5 speed bullet is my ALL time favorite toy. It’s a fabulous vibe for fun alone or fun with your partner. It’s about the same size as the regular bullet, but this one has a 9v battery and it pulses and escalates! If you spend $60 today, on Cyber […]

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How to give a Gourmet Blow Job e-book for $4.98

November 2, 2013

Does giving your lover a blow job leave you feeling beautiful, empowered and beautiful? Well, if not, it should! I wrote a 14 page full color e-book that gives you tips on how to give a gourmet blow job. We also are realistic at Bliss and we know sometimes we don’t have a lot of […]

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Butterfly Kiss G-spot Vibrator Review

September 2, 2013

Happy Monday Blissful Babes, Buxom Bunny here to help brighten up your Monday with a Butterfly Kiss G-spot vibrator review! So first things first, what is a G-spot vibrator? The concept behind the G-spot vibrator trend is fairly self explanatory, unless you’re like I was—standing at the wall, completely overwhelmed! But to give you the […]

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Curvy Girl 1 Year Anniversary Open House Oct. 11th, 2013

August 24, 2013

I am excited to announce we will be celebrating our 1 year anniversary party and open house on Oct. 11th. We will celebrate all day long but we will have champagne and nibbles starting at 4pm. Join us for some fun and a sale on Oct. 11th at Curvy Girl Lingerie. Our plus size lingerie […]

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Bondage Seminar Part 2: Ms. Kat is going to let us watch.

June 20, 2013

Bondassage Up Close and Personal : July 27th at Curvy Girl Lingerie in Willow Glen ( if you would like more information about Bondassage.) Back by popular request Ms Kat is going to let us watch. This is our intermediate/advanced bondage seminar. This will be a 90 minute class with a live demonstration and instruction […]

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