Orgasm: She’s never had one

by Chrystal Bougon on July 27, 2010

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Sex Toys for Newbies: From time to time my customers or fans email me questions about some pretty serious stuff related to their sex life. Today I received one via Facemail from a woman who searched sex expert on Facebook and found me. She is 26 and has never had an orgasm. She gave me permission to share her question after removing her personal information:

“I’m writing because I’ve never been able to have an orgasm, either by myself or with a partner. Is that normal? I?ve recently started dating a new man and I’m afraid that this will affect our relationship. If you can offer any advice, I would really appreciate it! I am in love and the sex is great, but I just cannot climax. What do you suggest?”

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Pleasure Party : Testimonial from a repeat customer

by Chrystal Bougon on July 27, 2010

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Pleasure Parties: This is such a cool review from one of our repeat Bliss Pleasure Party customers. She posted it 0n our Facebook “fan” page, too, if you want to know more about this customer visit our Facebook “Like” page.

“Well, this testimonial is long overdue but I would like to share a testimonial for Chrystal Bougon of BlissConnection.

A couple of months ago, my girlfriend and I hosted a “Bliss Pleasure Party” for our lovely fellow PTA moms. What a hoot! We had such a fun evening! Chrystal made all of the women comfortable and she was very informative with the products she had brought with her. Every one in attendance got to touch, test-drive and sample the products.

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Naughty Songs: This sex toy vibrates to your play list

July 21, 2010
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Sex Toys for women and couples that plug into your MP3 Player. How naughty is your play list on your iPod or other MP3 player?
“I knew a girl named Nikki, I guess you could say she was sex fiend. I met her in a hotel lobby masturbating with a magazine.”  “Let’s Get It On.” “Wicked Games.” [...]

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Electro Sex Toys: The She-Stim on Better Sex Bliss Radio

July 20, 2010
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Mr. S Leather & Madame S Leather is practically a San Francisco Landmark. Here is a link from @violetblue that has a super cool TOUR of their FETISH  Store & Factory in San Francisco on her Blip.tv account here:  (N.S.F.W.!  )  http://www.blip.tv/file/240382  You can check out their ISOLATION chamber on this video, too. As Violet [...]

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Sex Toys: Not sure where to start and which sex toy is best?

July 19, 2010
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Sex Toy options are endless. If you are new to sex toys, it can be VERY daunting trying to figure out where to start. We were all there, once.  There are some really fantastic toys out there these days. There is the old stand by and super famous Original Rabbit Pearl made in Japan with [...]

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Does this woman WANT to give and receive pleasure with me?

July 19, 2010
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We blogged about “Orgasming with a Man” and all of the insecurities and the intense stream of consciousness some women have before they decide to have sex with someone new. This came about after I got a request to fill out a survey for a website where they are researching women and our pleasure response. The [...]

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Orgasming with a man: The thoughts that run through our head

July 17, 2010
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Stop Faking It, Just Have One has been my mantra for the past 5 years or more (well, actually maybe since about the time I turned 30). “No one can give you an orgasm. It’s your job to have an orgasm, not someone’s job to give you one” is the first line of the book [...]

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Sexting as foreplay? Taking naughty pics with your cell phone.

July 16, 2010
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My inbox is constantly filled with newsletters and RSS feeds about SEXTING and Tips for taking flirty or naughty pics with your cell phone so I thought I would compile a list here with some good resources for sexting, naughty pics for your lover, good phone sex and sending naughty texts. Clearly this is a [...]

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She-stim arrived today for testing

July 15, 2010
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Sex Toy that does not vibrate. Well, I can honestly say I have NEVER seen anything like this before. Well, check that. I have seen this kind of thing, but only online – not in my hot little hands.  This sex toy does not vibrate. It uses an electrical signal to stimulate you… for him [...]

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Top 15 reasons we LOVE Eros Silicone Lube

July 14, 2010
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15 Reasons we LOVE the Eros Lube – Pjur Bodyglide
1. Never gets dry or sticky – ever. (We have written about this lube before and we called it “possibly the best lube ever” and you can read our blog about the Eros Lube here.)
2. No preservatives
3. No fragrance
4. No flavor
5. No glycerin – which means [...]

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