But, even in 2009 I still get one or two women per party who ask me that question once we get behind the closed door in the ordering room. In some cases, I think it’s more about the woman and that she is too afraid to communicate with her lover that she is ready to enhance their bedroom fun. And sadly, in some cases, it’s true that their male partner really does not like the idea of a toy. (Men are worried they will be replaced, or the toy will be bigger then them, or they will not be needed any longer.)
Make sure she is warmed up and lubricated before you allow it to touch her clitoris. If she is not lubricating on her own, do not take that as a personal affront to your skills. Sometimes it’s hormonal and sometimes it’s just how we are wired. (Click here for our #1 selling Eros Silicone Lubricant that is super female friendly and with no flavor, no scent, and no preservatives.) And read our blog about the 6 Things That Can Make It Difficult for Women To Climax. Crazy things like too much Starbucks, allergy meds and lack of sleep make it difficult for us to lubricate and orgasm.
Men should really EMBRACE toys as they do all of the heavy lifting for you. If you have difficulty giving your partner an orgasm orally, incorporate a soft quiet toy like the FINGER FUN into your oral lovemaking. Using it in conjunction with your tongue and fingers can give her that little extra vibration that she needs to give her an orgasm from oral. Just think how much less work your tongue has to do. This toy is soft, waterproof and quiet. It’s small enough that it won’t get in the way and is subtle enough it won’t be TOO strong for her.
When I do the co-ed Pleasure Parties I love to coach the men to make sure they take care of their female partner first. Give her an orgasm before you even have any penetration at all. Use your fingers, your mouth, a toy or whatever you have to let her have one first. If you want to see your wife or girlfriend’s LUSTY VIXEN come out for a little while – give her an orgasm, then have intercourse, and then give her another orgasm after. You may see a side of your partner you have never seen before. Women can be extra ravenous and aggressive after their first orgasm and will be begging you for intercourse after that!
Would love to hear your comments on this subject. Have questions about which sex toy is right for you and your partner, give me a call at 408-826-9087. I am a Sex Toy & Sex Expert and would love to help you find the right toy for your situation. No obligation to buy anything. You can even buy it from my compeition. I would just love to help you find the right toy to ELEVATE your sex life.
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Blissfully, Chrystal http://www.blisspartiesinc.com/ Tel 408-826-9087
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